Comments on: Psycho Skank Ho, Long, Long Version

By: patti

patti — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 01:22:11 +0000

sweetheart – i’m thinking a bottle of good red wine and a few chocolates are in order. just saying. crap – what can i say…

By: Da Goddess

Da Goddess — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 09:09:37 +0000

Goodness, you’ve had your hands full. I sincerely hope Goob grows up soon and realizes that this drama is totally unnecessary. Unfortunately, I think that’ll take him being stationed far from home before it’ll sink in. Stay strong, my friend. Stay strong.

By: sticks

sticks — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 00:04:39 +0000

He needs to talk to my nephew. Gene married his PSH. She really was pregnant but she has made his life and a bunch of other Marines’ lives hell too. She decided to get a job while her husband was in Iraq. She started stripping and hustling for a living. She has conned other guys into buying her cars, which she wrecked and then stuck them with everything. She has had Gene arrested for “abusing” her. He wasn’t even around at the time of the alleged event. She has been arrested for trying to stab him. His Marine training came in handy then. She told her “fiance” that “this guy was stalking her.” The guy was speachless when Gene explained he was her husband, not a stalker. The list goes on and on and on. Her mother is just as bad and has called Gene’s commander and tried to get him in trouble.

All I can say is Good luck. I hope she gets enough rope to hang herself.

By: Lemon Stand

Lemon Stand — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 02:32:09 +0000

Woooooaaaaa! Shades of Judy Garlands red shoes! I agree with quality weenie but as we are also having problems with our eldest taking responsibility as an adult… I have to say I somewhat commiserate. Luckily, our daughter has budget problems and not the social kind… at the moment. My husband and I have come to realize that there are some offspring who will not learn anything the easy way. They have to fall down and break their own noses to accept that what you are telling them is true. It’s hard as a parent to stand back and watch it but we also understand that it is the only way some kids will learn. (guess they must have been meant to be born in Missouri… the ‘show me’ state.) Sending good thoughts and prayers your way!

By: Quality Weenie

Quality Weenie — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 22:23:04 +0000

Maybe he needs to talk to someone who’s life has been ruined by a PSH and who finally realized her for waht she was and turned their life around.

By: Hapkido

Hapkido — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 18:26:13 +0000

Holy smokes! My drama isn’t half as compelling as these events…

The Psycho can talk to me if she wants to share any info on her supposed brain tumor. I’m sure I can make her see the light (bright, white, inviting) on how BS isn’t a good idea.

Keep your chins up on this one. Unfortunately, we guys are sort of dominated by the “other head”, sometimes into our 20s, so you’ll have to resort to sometimes extreme measures to get a message through. Peter’s plate idea was a great one!

By: LeeAnn

LeeAnn — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 16:12:40 +0000

I was my mom’s TerrorChild, and I look back amazed that she never killed me outright. I certainly deserved it. I hope it doesn’t take Goob as long as it took me to realize what a treasure a mom is. And that you are, lady.
PSH sounds nightmarish and I’d be lawyered up and armed to the teeth if I had to deal with something like her. I wish you so much luck!

By: Pam

Pam — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 15:53:51 +0000

Lord have mercy… the über manipulative PSH needs a reality check… but I can’t say that Goob doesn’t!
You’re treading the fine line of asking for some respect from Goob while being supportive about the baby situation; that’s not easy. It’s never easy and no, it never ends.

I’d demand a paternity test for the off/on again – dead/alive – 11 inch long mythical child. Or… no support of any kind.

By: diamond dave

diamond dave — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 10:30:33 +0000

Uhhh… he didn’t meet this chick in Arkansas did he? Because your description of PSH sounds frighteningly similar to a particular chunt in our family, one who I’ve blogged about more than she deserves.
Sadly, our daughter has been known to play similar games. The only way to deal with something like this, if Goob won’t listen to common sense, is make it clear you won’t allow such a problem to disrupt your home (meaning you, your hubby, your daughter, and Buck) and he’s the one that’ll have to deal with the consequences of his actions, not your family. And follow through with any legal measures against PSH, at least get the point across to her you won’t tolerate any games, not now, not ever. Because, trust me, it’s all a game. I know, seen it and been there, and burned the t-shirt.

By: AC

AC — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 02:25:24 +0000

Your last sentence reminded me of a girlfriend and what she went through- is still going through.
I’m not there but I seems to me this has a lot to do with what happened in Utah and fear of what will happen next in his life with a bit of general growing up and stretching his wings.
Oh, and the answer to the question is never, but as he matures it will hopefully get easier, less distructive, hopefully.

By: Theresa

Theresa — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 01:22:40 +0000

Ummm…wow? PSH is really…well, her name sorta says it all, doesn’t it. And Goob? That boy needs a swift kick in the rear. Just my humble opinion.

We recently went thru the ‘these are the rules’ thing, as you know, and it sucks.

I do have to say though, when you wrote – “Twelve hours later, the baby was eating and breathing all on his own…pretty good for a preemie born at the end of September. And only being 3 lbs., 11 inches at birth, according to her. Hmm…at 11 inches, it would have had to be missing its legs…or its head, which could account for the ‘breathing problems’ PSH kept referring to. Can’t breathe well without a head, I guess” – I almost spewed my vitamin water on my laptop. Yep, she’s a real winner there!

By: Bou

Bou — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 00:16:36 +0000

My life is dreamy. Peachy. Heavenly. Holy crap.

By: Carmen

Carmen — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 22:27:49 +0000

OMG. Psycho doesn’t even begin to describe it! I am flabbergasted!

By: Peter

Peter — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 22:08:39 +0000

Break his plate. Seriously. Sit everyone down to supper and start serving. When you get to him, simply break his plate, tell him to leave and to not come back until he’s ready to live by your rules while staying at your house.

This is nothing more than him again, testing his adulthood against his parents. So, test your parenthood.